Do you ever get the feeling you’re in your own way?
As human beings, we spend an awful lot of time trying to control things. Usually things we have no control over, like what someone else thinks of us.
Trying to control others is like trying to control the ocean. Actually it’s exactly the same. It’s attempting to control things external to you. It doesn’t work, yet so many of us insist on expending a whole lot of energy on it.
What anyone else thinks, feels or does, has nothing to do with your reality. This little gem dropped into my inbox yesterday:
“If you could actually stand in someone else’s shoes, to hear what they hear, see what they see, and feel what they feel, you would honestly wonder what planet they live on, and be totally blown away by how different their “reality” is from yours.
You’d also never, in a million years, be quick to judge again.”
To change your life, your reality, doesn’t depend on others. To make a difference all you need to do is change your thoughts and perceptions.
If you come at things from a point of love, rather than hate. From abundance not lack. From giving, not selfishness.
If you can do these things, your outlook will change.
Focus on the good in your life and more of that will come. Focus on the bad and again, more of that will appear.
Stop trying to control that which you have no control over and feel the frustration ebb away. Get out of your own way and feel the flow start to come back into your life.
Most of all have fun with your life – that is what you are here for!