Nobody that is successful just ‘sees how it goes’ and gives things a ‘try’ – they make a commitment to succeed!
Did Steve Jobs just try and make an MP3 player and ‘see how it goes’? Did Oprah ‘try’ to have a good TV show? Did Michael Jordan ‘try’ to be the best basketball player in the world? Did Mark Cuban become a self-made billionaire by just ‘seeing how it goes’?
You know the answer to all of the above questions is a resounding NO! Are you the person who has ‘tried everything’, but are still not getting the results you want?
Here’s why ‘trying’ isn’t going to get you where you want to go.
You have to commit to something if you really want to achieve it.
Quit “trying” and start “committing.” People ‘try’ to make money, run a marathon, lose weight, or whatever, all the time. But those who commit to it are the ones that get the results. Like the saying goes “when you want success as bad as you want to breathe then you will be successful.”
So here is a question for you: what it is that you are really looking for? Are you looking for results OR are you looking for another excuse so you can feel like you attempted something?
To get the results you want, you need to do the work. There is no get rich quick, or lose 20 pounds in a week. If you want long term success my friend, it takes effort.
WHY is it that you want results? Start with your goals – really think them through, take the time to write them down and formulate a step-by-step plan to achieve them. Create a vision board – visualize your dreams, and put it out there for you to see every day. Tell others what you are working to accomplish and commit to it!
If you don’t do these exercises first you are bound to fail…but at least you can say ‘I tried’. You have to DO THE WORK first and commit to making things happen before you can make yourself “see things through”
Those who are successful have a very clear vision of what they want to achieve. Successful people don’t just “see how it goes”. They have a CRYSTAL CLEAR vision of what they want to accomplish and they commit to that success!
Quit blaming others – it is no one else’s fault!
It is YOU not doing the work. If you want to blame somebody, go look in the mirror and give that person a good talking to and a swift kick in the behind!
Excuses will NEVER get results, but SOLUTIONS will!
I understand that you might feel you have difficulties or challenges that others don’t have to face. Look around – somewhere there is someone with the same challenges who is achieving their goals.
You can find a way! You can create your solution.
As harsh as it sounds, no one cares about your “excuses”. There are so many people who have been in worse situations than you who have found solutions and created their success. They did the work.
Until you realize that you have to COMMIT to a result, nothing is ever going to work for you.
Excuses or solutions…YOU decide.